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Most of us have seen those “Advice From a Horse” memes floating around social media.
Take life’s hurdles in stride.
Loosen the reins.
Be free-spirited.
Keep the burrs from under the saddle.
Carry your friends when they need it.
Be stable.
Gallop to greatness.
Some of them are a little cheesy. Some are clever. But the longer I spend around horses, the more I realize there really is some wisdom hidden in those simple sayings.
Horses don’t overcomplicate life. They don’t worry about social media. They don’t care about keeping up with the neighbours. They’re perfectly happy with good food, good company, and enough room to run.
Maybe we could all learn something from that.
Take Life’s Hurdles in Stride
Most trail rides eventually encounter something unexpected.
A fallen tree across the trail.
A coyote slipping through the brush.
Or the sound of pounding hoofbeats coming up fast from behind.
One day I heard exactly that. My first thought was that some inconsiderate rider was ripping down the trail without any concern for anyone else’s safety.
As it turned out, there was no rider at all.
Just a horse galloping along wearing a saddle and looking very pleased with itself.
Apparently its rider had departed company somewhere farther back on the trail.
Moments like that can get your attention in a hurry.
But good horses have a way of teaching us not to panic. They notice things. They assess situations. Then most of the time they simply keep moving forward.
Life works much the same way.
Unexpected things happen. Plans change. Sometimes a perfectly ordinary day suddenly becomes anything but ordinary.
The trick isn’t avoiding every hurdle.
It’s learning to step over what you can, go around what you can’t, and keep moving down the trail.
Loosen the Reins
Horse people know there’s a difference between guidance and control.
The tighter we grip the reins, the harder everything becomes.
The same can be true in life.
When we’re younger, we often believe we can control every outcome if we just try hard enough. We make plans and set goals. We try to anticipate every possible problem before it happens.
Then life reminds us who’s really in charge.
Jobs change. Relationships change. Health changes. The weather doesn’t care about our plans, and neither do horses.
Sometimes the best thing we can do is loosen the reins a little and trust ourselves to handle whatever comes next.
Keep the Burrs From Under the Saddle
This might be my favourite piece of horse advice.
A tiny burr trapped under a saddle can make a horse miserable all day.
The same is true for people.
Small annoyances have a way of growing if we ignore them.
The bill we’ve been meaning to pay.
A closet we’ve been meaning to clean.
The phone call we’ve been avoiding.
None of these things seem very important on their own.
But pile up enough burrs and eventually every step becomes uncomfortable.
Life gets a lot easier when we take the time to remove the little things that are rubbing us the wrong way.
Carry Your Friends When They Need It
For thousands of years, horses have carried people through all kinds of circumstances.
Across mountains, deserts, and even entire continents.
Sometimes our friends need us to do the same.
Not by solving all their problems.
Not by having all the answers.
Just by showing up.
Listening.
Offering support.
Walking beside them through a difficult stretch of trail.
Most of us can remember someone who helped carry us when life became heavy.
It’s worth trying to be that person for someone else.
Sometimes You Need to Get Your Kicks
One piece of horse advice never seems to make it onto those inspirational memes.
Sometimes you need to get your kicks.
Most horse owners aren’t particularly worried about barking dogs. A dog making noise is usually just a dog making noise.
A loose dog charging at a horse is another matter entirely.
Fortunately, horses are not as helpless as some people think.
When necessary, they are perfectly capable of delivering a well-aimed kick that quickly changes the situation.
There may be a lesson there.
I’m not suggesting we go around kicking people.
But there are times when we need healthy boundaries.
Sometimes we need to stand our ground.
Sometimes we need to make it clear that certain behaviour isn’t acceptable.
Most horses are peaceful creatures. They would much rather spend their day grazing in a field than fighting with anyone.
But they also know how to look after themselves when the situation calls for it.
That’s a lesson worth remembering.
Gallop to Greatness
Most horses don’t spend their days worrying about whether they’re successful.
They don’t compare themselves to other horses.
They don’t care who has the fanciest saddle, the newest trailer, or the biggest barn.
When the gate opens, they run because they enjoy running.
There is something refreshing about that.
Maybe greatness isn’t about becoming famous or wealthy.
Maybe greatness is simply finding the things that make us feel alive and making time for them.
For some people that’s travel.
And for others it’s gardening, painting, hiking, or spending time with grandchildren.
For horse people, it might just be a summer trail ride beneath a blue sky.
Advice From a Horse: Life Lessons From the Barn
The older I get, the more I appreciate simple wisdom.
And sometimes it comes from the most unlikely teachers.
A horse doesn’t care about your age, your job title, or how much money you have in the bank.
A horse simply asks you to be present.
To pay attention.
To keep moving forward.
And perhaps to remember that life is a lot more enjoyable when you occasionally loosen the reins and enjoy the ride.
Happy Cowgirl Monday!
xoxo
Published by Cheryl @ The Lifestyle Digs on July 20, 2026.
